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Acknowledging the New Year

2018. 20-18. 2-0-1-8. Yeah, 2017 was a pretty intense year all around. With everything that has been going on in my personal life, I sort of let the last few days of the year slide on by in a blur of Netflix, purloined sweatshirts, and napping. Yesterday, I started pulling things together, and metaphorically sticking my toe out the door to see if it was safe to leave my little year end hidey-hole and re-engage with the world. So far so good. The overwhelming sentiment on social media and among my friends and colleagues is one of optimism, and in some cases a scary level of determination to make this year “better”, by force if necessary, but where does that leave me? This year more than ever I am deferring to the “my new year starts on my birthday” excuse/reasoning. I am so not ready to make out my yearly “to-do” list, but I do have some general ideas on how I would like things to go down:

  1. Stop comparing – it’s something we all do, and in a world full of Instagram perfection and Pinterest-worthy post, it’s hard to avoid. Ultimately though, it just makes you crazy and that is in no way helpful to the process. So this year I am going to try to focus on living my best life. Am I out of bed and functioning? Win! Did have the energy to do laundry and get dinner on the table? Self-five! We all have our own struggles and while we can find inspiration with others, it important to understand that our #bestlife may not look anything like someone else’s, and that’s completely fine.
  2. Self care – this goal is partly a continuation of the stop comparing and partly because we are working on stepping down the big daily med I’ve been on for years. For this to be successful, I am going to have to make sure I am listening to my body and what it needs as well as mindfully setting aside time to meditate/rest/whatever I need to be my healthiest. Which as a step, and this is hard for a chubby girl to admit, I am going to try to stop worrying about my weight. Seems strange right? But I am going to focus on good, healthy foods and eating in a way that provides sustainable energy and a more harmonious body, and keep my eyes off the scale for a while.
  3. Be grateful – life has given me a lot. Not as much as some (that comparison thing again), but much, much more than others. It’s good to have goals and to work towards something “better”, but it’s just as important to be mindful of what you’ve accomplished and to send up a general “thank you” to the universe from time to time. I am going to endeavor to end each day by listing three things I am grateful for AND I am going to verbalize them, probably to Andy. He’ll be so pleased ūüôā

So that’s it. Those are the three things that I want from this new year. No biggie, right?

 

 

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The Best of 2015

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While I am not going to start worrying about my yearly resolutions until I turn 30 in March, I like to take this time of year and think about what an incredible and busy year 2015 has been. Here are some of the highlights:

  • Participating¬†my very first Color Run – it ended up being even more fun than I’d hoped, and I would really like to do it again next year. Probably with fairy wings and a tutu, you know, for funsies.
  • Spending a long weekend with the Lubattis – Great food, cold weather, lots of laughter, some of my favorite people, and getting to play auntie to two adorable girls? It doesn’t get much better than that.

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  • Attending the 3rd annual Maiedae Mixer – Sometimes the task of maintaining your blog can get a bit daunting, and there is nothing like spending an evening playing dress up and interacting with other creatives to get things back on track.
  • Going apple picking – it was muddy, and I quickly discovered that flip flops are a poor choice in footwear, but the orchard was beautiful and I felt so amazingly proud later when I made apple butter from apples I had hand picked.
  • Getting my braces off – After 3+ years, I am so happy have them gone. No more cutting the inside of my mouth, no more tiny rubber bands littering the inside of my purse, and no more spending 20 minutes after I eat pulling things out of my braces. And I can have granola again.

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  • Taking a silk dying class – silk dying is something I’ve always be curious about. There are some truly spectacular techniques out there and while this class was for basic beginners, it was enough to make me want to take more advanced courses and maybe invest in some supplies of my own.
  • Dying my hair pink – now this one is a little sneaky sneaky. I work for a fairly conservative company, and while they are “okay” with my piercings and tattoos that is pretty much where the indulgence in my¬†alternative wardrobe choices ends. So I have been slowly transitioning my hair color from a natural-ish red to fuchsia.¬†We are three months into the process now and things are definitely on the¬†more pink¬†end of the spectrum and¬†no one has¬†really caught on.

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  • Discovering the miracle of acupuncture – after all of my health issues earlier this year, I was desperate to find something that would allow me to resume some semblance of a “normal” life. The addition of acupuncture to my weekly routine has been a huge help getting things back on track.
  • Quality time with my mom – I was lucky enough to have my mom come and stay with me for several longer visits this year. Since I live in the “big city”, I like to introduce my mom to things she doesn’t usually encounter in the mountains of NC. This year we added a hibachi restaurant, gel manicures, and spa facials to her list of “first tries”. It’s almost more fun than trying something new myself.

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28 Before 29

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It’s that time again, the time of year where I make all of my new year’s resolutions. This is my third year doing one of these and I think I have some fun/challenging stuff in store, and of course I will be updating you guys on the progress. You can click here to see how I did on my 27 before 28, didn’t quite make them all, but I did better than I did the year before so we’ll call it a win. Without further ado, my 28 before 29!

  1. Create more original content for my blog
  2. Get my braces off – So much for done in 2 years, we are now creeping up on 3 with no end in sight
  3. Fur Baby Fundraiser
  4. Pink Hair¬† – My boss wouldn’t go for it, but Andy did buy me a pink wig
  5. 12 new cake recipes
    Brown Sugar Cupcakes
    Chocolate Ooey Gooey Butter Cake
    Chocolate Sour Cream Cupcakes
    Red Velvet Cupcakes
    Chocolate Nutella Cupcakes
    Chocolate Chip Raspberry Cupcakes
    White Chocolate Cupcakes with Truffle Filling
    Cherry Almond Cupcake
    Chocolate Dipped Strawberry Cupcakes
    PB&J Cupcakes
    Dark Chocolate Blood Orange Cupcakes
    I-Gotta-Have-Chocolate-Cake Cake
  6. Random acts of kindness – at least one a month!
  7. Try 10 new restaurants
    Q Cafe
    Savannah Moon Baking Co.
    Joe Mamma’s
    The Flying Monk
    Mom & Dad’s
    Miccosukee Root Cellar
    Chop House on the Bricks
    Biscuit Head
    Persis Grill
    Sunny Pointe Cafe
  8. Plant a herb garden – I bought a mint plant…it’s still alive, but I don’t think it counts.
  9. Learn 8 embroidery stitches I learned a blanket stitch and crocheted a small blanket.
  10. Create a logo
  11. New Tattoo – the two times I tried to go things didn’t work out
  12. Have tea in Savannah
  13. See a play in Asheville
  14. Visit Looking Glass Falls
  15. Go to the Zoo
  16. Mini vacation somewhere I’ve never been
  17. Use my Instagram account
  18. Make a quilt – Didn’t happen, not even close
  19. Get more comfortable using my new photography equipment
  20. Organize my office
  21. Make a dress – bought a pattern, cut the pieces and that’s as far as it went
  22. Banish the Beige – Paint the Hallway
  23. Banish the Beige – Paint the Master Bathroom – after painting the hallway we decided to postpone all other painting endeavors for the time being.
  24. Banish the Beige – Paint the Guestroom – same thing that happened to painting the bathroom
  25. Embrace snail mailI sent more, but not as much as I had hoped to.
  26. Complete the 30 day squat challenge
  27. Work on my personal growth with the ladies of Whole Soul Lab
  28. Design and order a custom tshirt

 

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And We’re Back!

New Year

Not that I went anywhere physically, I’ve just been neglecting my computer. We had a nice quiet-ish holiday break. After the last of the family said their goodbyes we settled into a lazy couple of days where the passage of time was marked primarily by when we had to give Oliver his meds. He is indeed back home, and feeling much much better. Well enough in fact, to fight taking his pills and spit the liquid medicine all over Andy and myself. I am happy he his feeling better, but not my favorite way to start the day.

I can’t believe that 2013 is almost gone, it’s been a crazy year with so many good and not so good things happening. I am excited to see what 2014 is going to bring.

In case you find yourself tempted by that gorgeous cocktail featured above, here is the link to the recipe. I haven’t tried it yet, but I would order/make it based on looks alone.

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Happy Belated New Year!

Although this greeting should have gone out a day ago, I maintain that it is still the new year and the sentiment is still valid.¬† Now is the time for resolutions and reflections, measuring where we were with where we are and seeing how far we have to go until we’re where we want to be. Last year was HUGE for me; I started this blog, got married, grew my hair out, bought oh so many shoes, and adopted another cat.

This photo by Tim Walker is my inspiration for the new year.¬† I look at it and see a reminder to look at things for what the could be, rather than what they are, to embrace my imagination, and to not be afraid of being a little childish or foolish at times. Usually life is much more interesting when you bend the rules just a little, or when you look at them more as guidelines. Here’s to a shiny new year, ripe with possibility and adventure…and naps, we mustn’t forget naps!